Quick Lessons on how to Melt Down An Aspie -
Lesson One -
Unpredictable reflux episodes - happening any time anywhere with varying degrees of pain ranging from a quick ow to full on taste blood and have dizzy spells because of a nerve irritation causing cardiac changes.
Lesson 2 -
Give them medication which needs to be taken 30 mins before eating each morning and watch them stress when you suggest 1 min before the time is up that they could have some weetbix now - repeat each morning for months on end.
Lesson 3 -
Do various medical investigations - stressful in it's own right and decide that surgery is the best option to deal with the reflux but wait for a couple of weeks for test results.
Lesson 4 -
Get test results and possibly query doing another test which will really set off your sensory issues - and set surgery indefinitely but that it will happen.
Lesson 5 -
Decide the next test is too much and we just want to get on and book the surgery as the surgeon said we could do - but be unable to raise the surgeon...for 3 weeks.
Lesson 6 -
Chase up the surgeon's nurse only to get a call the next day saying surgery's in a week and a half - watch the child completely fall to pieces.
Lesson 7 -
Pull the kid together and tell them it can't happen then because their father is going to be away so there's no childcare for a hospital stay.
Lesson 7 -
Call the nurse, who calls the surgeon and then calls you and we finally get a date set for 1 December.
Fall to pieces a little yourself as you realise that you are about to put another child through major surgery and instead of just thinking and talking about it it's really going to happen.
Child falls to pieces all over again.
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